This blog is about something we all yearn for: yes, it's Love.
It’s not about the love we see in movies or read about in romance novels. Because as Osho says about love is, it is not about finding the Right Person. It's more about we becoming the right kind of person.
Think about how most relationships work now.
We're constantly trying to get love, to be loved, to possess someone. We're like emotional beggars, always wanting, always needing. But what if we could flip that? What if instead of being love's beggar, you could become love's emperor?
The key is meditation. When you go inward, something magical happens.
You start to generate so much love within yourself that you no longer need to extract it from others. Instead, you start wanting to share it, to give it away.
Let that sink in for a moment.
Osho says,
“When you go inside your being a totally new energy arises. You have so much energy that you would like to share it, then love is a sharing. Then you don't need love, then you are not in need of somebody to love you. “For the first time you have possessed your treasure of love; and a new need arises to share it, to give it to whomsoever needs it. Share it and give it. When love is a need and you want somebody to love you, it is going to create misery. It is a beggar's love, and beggars can't be happy. When love has been known… That is only possible when you move inwards and come to the innermost shrine of your being.”
Imagine love not as something you need to get, but as something that naturally overflows from within.
True love isn't about possession, control, or even having someone love you back
And this could happen only with meditation, with going deep inside yourself.
It's not about desperately seeking love from others, but about discovering a reservoir of love within yourself.
Love becomes less about what you can get and more about what you can give. It becomes a spontaneous expression of joy, not a transaction.
Most of what we call love is actually a complex mix of jealousy, possession, and fear.
It's a kind of "intimate enmity" where love and hate are two sides of the same coin.
Osho says,
“What has your love done to you? Dreams and dreams and dreams. And dreams are only when you look at your love somewhere there in the future, then it is a dream. When you look back at the love that has happened, then it is a nightmare.”
But true love? True love is different. It's free. It doesn't possess or want to be possessed.
Imagine loving without expectation. Loving without keeping score. Loving not because of what someone did yesterday or might do tomorrow, but simply because love is the natural state of your being.
This isn't about romantic relationships alone. It's about a way of being. You can love a flower, a stranger, a moment - not because it serves you, but because love is simply flowing through you.
The ultimate invitation here is to learn how to "be" love. Not to love someone, but to be loving. Just like breathing happens without effort, love can become your natural state.
So here's your challenge: What would change if you saw love not as something you need to chase, but as something that naturally emerges when you become still, when you go inward, when you meditate?
Remember, love isn't something you do. It's something you become.
